Nature’s Highlights:

This week I wanna remind you that, just like anything in life, nature also has 2 sides - light and dark.

And here are them both, gracefully shot by your dearest:

It was New Year's Eve, December 31st, 2020. We were all at my friend's house, partying like there was no other.

For months, I’ve been liking this beautiful blonde girl like crazy.

She was 1 year older than me, but it didn’t matter,

I loved her.

Finally, after a little (ok, maybe a lot) of alcohol, and a lot of my best friend’s support,

I took her by the side, in a different room.

We were sitting on the bed and my heart sped past me more and more with every second gone.

She knew why we were there, and she patiently waited for me to speak

Finally, I blurted out my feelings, a breath escaping my chest more than words.

Relief washed over me, but it was fleeting.

To this day, I still cannot remember what exactly she told me.

But I know that right afterwards, she left the room and decided to give me some time to cool off.

Spent around 30-40 minutes there, first alone then with my friends playing poker.

But I needed more.

So, in the end, I went to the bathroom and I stayed there for around TWO HOURS pouring my heart out.

Funniest part about the whole story?

There was only one bathroom…and it was her house.

This is the story of how, at 14 years old, I confessed my feelings for the first time.

I still remember the thoughts I had walking through my head at the time:

"I'll never find someone as perfect as her." "I love her, I want to be with her." "She's the one for me."

Fast forward three years, and we’re not even compatible as friends anymore.

I said the same shit with every girl I liked since - two more, to be exact.

Do you think the prophecy ever came true?

This article’s title is “Love Comes, Love Goes”.

Some would argue that statement isn’t true, because

”If it was true love, it wouldn’t have been like this”.

To which I say (in some cases) it was true love, but it was another person’s love.

Every time I said “This girl is perfect for me” or “I will never find someone as good as her”

I was right.

All of them were the perfect girl for me at the time, for the person who I was.

Love comes and goes, but only because we, as humans, change.

The only person who’s unchanged throughout their life is a dead one.

Every time we change, every time we evolve, we become different people.

As a result, our wishes change, our goals shift, and our attraction turns elsewhere.

So, if you want a lasting relationship, make sure you both meet two conditions:

1. You’ve outlined your personality. (aka you won’t drastically change your personality in the next years)

2. You want to grow and improve together.

With that in mind, I wanna leave you with just 1 more thing:

Heartbreak, just like death, is one of the things that we humans have a biologically hard time dealing with.

It’s natural for us to be scared of rejection and to be hurt by abandonment.

But, despite all of that, what’s even more natural for a human is the search for love, the search for happiness and fulfillment.

I see too many people today be hurt one too many times by life and decide to give up on searching for anything ever again.

Just like in business,

Just because you’ve failed once, twice, or ten times

YOU DON’T GIVE UP.

Now go out into this world, and find what your heart is so longing for.

Love ya guys <3

P.S.: I’m still searching for people to start helping them move through life as smoothly as I did in these last few months (In 9 months, I’ve had ONE bad day). If you know someone that might benefit from some advice, or just an open ear, send them to me, and I promise I’ll do everything in my power to help them. Thank you in advance <3